Seminars

 Life often confronts us with moments of loneliness that feel heavy and isolating. These moments can make us question God’s presence and care. As widows, single mothers, or single sisters still waiting on God for a life partner, this sense of solitude may feel even more overwhelming. But today, I am here to remind you of a beautiful truth: You are Never Alone. Through trials, uncertainties, and quiet moments of despair, God is not only near but actively present—guiding, comforting, and strengthening us. Hebrews 13:5b (AMP) reassures us: “I will never under any circumstances desert you nor leave you without support… nor will I forsake you or relax My hold on you—assuredly not!” We must hold firm to this promise and anchor ourselves in Jesus, the Solid Rock, who will never let us down. To the Widows The loss of a spouse leaves a void that feels insurmountable. Loneliness may tempt you to seek unhealthy distractions. But remember, God promises to fill that space with His presence. Isaiah 54:4-5 reminds us that God becomes our husband and Redeemer, offering a completeness that surpasses any human relationship. Yes, society may criticize or misunderstand how you cope. Traditions and expectations may impose additional burdens. But know this: Jesus is the only one who can truly take away the reproach of widowhood. Trust Him, lean on Him, and let His love guide you through grief. Your story will not end with loss. God will be your strength, provider, and friend. To the Single Mothers and Single Sisters Your identity is not tied to your marital status. The world may label you, but God sees you as His beloved child. He knows your needs and longs to draw you closer during this season. Jeremiah 29:11 promises a future filled with hope, and verse 13 assures us that when we seek Him with all our hearts, we will find Him. Singleness is not a curse but a season with divine purpose. While you wait, trust God’s timing, and let Him shape you for something greater. Remember, your pain has a purpose, and God will use it for His glory. God’s Heart for the Vulnerable God has a special place in His heart for widows, orphans, and the lonely. Jeremiah 49:11 highlights His promise to preserve and care for the vulnerable. Psalm 68:5 calls Him a defender of widows and a father to the fatherless. Trust that He will provide for you and your children, even when the world turns away. The Power of Community We are not meant to walk this journey alone. Surround yourself with fellow believers who can uplift your faith. Fellowship strengthens us, and iron sharpens iron. Groups like the Jesus Wives Forum in Ottawa are powerful examples of how widows can come together to encourage and support one another and the YAYA (Young adults and affairs) is a great network for the singles. Conclusion Beloved sisters, take heart and know that God is with you. Get busy for Him. Trust Him. Walk with Him daily, and let His presence fill your life. No matter what challenges you face, hold onto this truth: You are Never Alone. Amen.

Choosing the right spouse is one of the most important decisions we must make in life. When all is well at home it makes it easier to face difficulties outside of the home.

A happy home; a happy life.

God instituted the marital relationship and had all the wisdom needed to make it a positive experience for us. Therefore, it is important that we do not journey through this phase of life without God’s directive.

How should a Christian lady navigate this important life decision? Here are some important things to keep in mind while you are praying for God’s guidance regarding a life partner:
Who am I?
Who do others say I am?
Why do I have/want to get married?
What is God’s agenda for marriage?
What is devil’s agenda for marriage?
What is the world’s agenda for marriage?

Your response to these questions is a good place to start when you have decided to take the matter of marriage to God in prayer. If you have sincerely answered these questions, then you will be able to hear and obey God’s leading without any confusion. Does this mean the person God will lay in your heart will outrightly look like a perfect fit? Not always; do remember that God sees the heart and intent of the heart of man and He also knows the future.

Here are some Bible verses to provide more clarity on the reasons for marriage: Genesis 2:18, Genesis 1: 28, Proverbs 22:6, Psalm 127: 3-5. Amos 3:3, Proverbs 27:17

Text: Psalm 139:13-17(NLT), Jer 1:5-10(NLT), Psalm 40:7-8(NKJV)

Introduction: Without any doubt, God was very intentional, deliberate and had a thought, a motive for creating every single human on earth. We as believers however, have the special privilege of knowing what His thoughts and plans are, so we can walk in them. True and lasting impact can never be made outside knowing what we were made for. One could be moving so fast, but if it is in wrong direction, time is wasted and such one might never arrive at their desired destination. This study will help us explore what God’s thoughts are for us youths and young adults, and how we can align ourselves with them so our lives can count for good, and for God.

Our Example:
Jesus: Matthew 1:20-21, Luke 2:46-50, Luke 4:17-21
He found His purpose early and stuck to it, the resulting impact is what we are still living in today. Our purpose can be found in God’s word, and it can come specifically by persona revelations or instructions.

Our Case Study
Timothy: Paul wrote to Timothy in 1Tim 4:12 (ERV)
“You are young, but don’t let anyone treat you as if you are not important. Be an example to show the believers how they should live. Show them by what you say, by the way you live, by your love, by your faith, and by your pure life.”

Areas to explore and how it relates to our world today.
– What you say
– The way you live
– Your Love
– Your Faith
– Your Purity

One popular scripture particularly when we look at biblical  teachings on parenting and children is “Children are the Heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is his reward” (Psalm 127:3). 
 
A more robust promise can be seen in the message version Psalm 127:3-5
Don’t you see that children are God’s best gift?
    the fruit of the womb his generous legacy?
Like a warrior’s fistful of arrows
    are the children of a vigorous youth.
Oh, how blessed are you parents,
    with your quivers full of children!
Your enemies don’t stand a chance against you;
    you’ll sweep them right off your doorstep.
 
Like all of God’s promises, how can fathers and mothers ensure that these promises come to pass in their lives (parents) and in the lives of their children even in an unusual world. This seminar will explore the vital roles mothers play in nurturing the next generation for the Lord regardless of where we find ourselves. We will also explore how to support the various needs of our children and how to advocate for our children. Realizing that our children do not live in isolation but are exposed to others such as family members, educational institutions, extracurricular spaces, the church and the society at large(unusual society). How do we ensure our children imbibe Christian values and beliefs as we nurture them into the person God has called them to be. We will discuss practical strategies and more that mothers can use to support children to develop into meaningful and contributing individuals in the society and continue the legacy of the church during the seminar.

Introduction: It is a privilege as women to gather and discuss a crucial transition in life—retirement. Many do not have the privilege we have today, Lord thank you for life. For many of us, stepping away from active secular work can bring mixed emotions. As Christian women, we know that God has a plan for every season of our lives. Today, we will explore how we can embrace retirement with faith, wisdom, and purpose.

Trusting God’s Plan
Retirement is not an end but a new beginning. Proverbs 16:3 reminds us, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” God has a divine purpose for each stage of our journey

Financial Stewardship and Preparation
As we transition into retirement, financial preparedness is essential. Proverbs 21:5 says, “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.”
Here are some financial principles to consider:

  • Budgeting for Retirement: Luke 14:28
  • Avoiding Debt: Proverbs 22:7
  • Saving and Investing Wisely: Ecclesiastes 11:2
  • Planning for Generosity: 2 Corinthians 9:7
  • Staying Healthy and Active: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
  • Physical Health: Isaiah 40:31
  • Mental and Emotional Well-Being: Proverbs 17:22
  • Preventive Healthcare: Proverbs 27:12.

Finding New Purpose and Serving Others
Titus 2:3-5 encourages older women to mentor and teach younger women, sharing wisdom and experience. Whether through ministry, volunteering, or mentoring, we can continue making a difference.

Staying Spiritually and Emotionally Active
Psalm 92:14 promises, “They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.” This is a season to deepen our spiritual journey, strengthen relationships, and grow in faith.

Conclusion: Ladies, retirement is not about slowing down—it is about shifting our focus to God’s continued calling. Let us embrace this season with faith, preparation, and excitement for what God has in store.

Remember:

  • Trust God’s plan
  • Be diligent in financial preparation
  • Follow sound financial principles
  • Stay healthy and active
  • Find purpose in serving others
  • Stay spiritually active and fruitful

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for the journey You have led us through and for the season of retirement that lies ahead. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom to guide us as we transition into this new chapter. May we seek You in every decision, trusting that You have prepared good works for us to do.
Grant us peace in our hearts, removing any fear or uncertainty about the future. Let us rest in the assurance that You are our provider, our sustainer, and our ever-present help in every season of life.